Inspiration. Motivation. Love?

These are the things I struggled most to find during the year that I’ve been here. It’s been one hell of a ride and the journey and memories that we all faced will be ones that we can never forget.

Yet if there’s one thing I’ve learned this amazing, terrifying, and awe-some experience is that self-reflection and patience are some of the most important things to master. Meditation, forgiveness, and self-forgiveness are some of the key elements in surviving this critical time in our lives where we finally discover who we are, and why do what we do.

All of us will struggle in our own way, some will fail, and others will achieve the highest of honours, but as I’ve come to understand it’s not about the downfalls or the expectations that we fail to meet. It’s about the ability to learn, to grow, the never-ending journey that defines who we are.

I still learn every day, or try anyway. One of the most useful lessons is simply this; take one day at a time. Life will hit you like a bitch but finding happiness in the simplest things will change your entire perspective on the phenomenon we live each day. A smile from a passing stranger, the friends we can rely on, and the fleeting moment…. Of knowing there’s help when we need it.

I wish I could say that things would get easier once we graduate this semester but it’s the absolute opposite. Life is about to get much more complicated in every single factor but that’s why we came here isn’t it? To equip ourselves with the necessary tools to deal with those difficulties that will eventually find our ways.

In part self-discovery is one of the most difficult challenges that may come our way. It’s still the most important… and once we find it? The rest comes naturally.

Peace, love, and respect to you all.

Ty.

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Making friends

First semester gone and back to uni. Leaving home after what potentially would be your first visit back can resurface some of the feelings experienced during the first weeks at uni.

If you find that you still haven’t adapted there are loads of people that can help from tutors to lecturers and of course the help zone. But personally, I would make sure that you make the most of the first few weeks to emerge yourself into the social life at uni, I didn’t and now I’m finding it hard. I’ve even considered leaving but I’m going to stick it out for now…

So, to make new friends I suggest:

  • Join a club or society, become a volunteer. You’ll meet a lot of new people and have a lot of fun.
  • Be a good listener, show interest in other people. Smile and relax.
  • Don’t hide away, by doing this it’ll only get worse as the weeks go by and you’ll feel even more alone.
  • Be prepared to try new things, see what happens and enjoy yourself.
  • Don’t be scared to be you, we all have our good things and our bad ones but being at uni gives you the opportunity to meet people with similar likes and interests as you.
  • Keep in touch, something that thanks to technology is pretty simple.
  • Be patient, it won’t happen straight away but you’ll get there eventually.